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February 3rd, 2007
When I read Malachy Walsh’s Feb 2 blog entry announcing his reproductive success, I considered posting my congratulations on his site, then it hit me that a great many of the people I know are friends of his. So here’s his post.
He asks an interesting question — what was it like being told you were going to be a father? I remember the moment and the thought precisely — I’m 47, it was never my plan to be a father. What’s going on here?
It was night. August of 1988. My girlfriend, Katie, and I had just moved in together four or five days before. 47 years old, and it was the first and only time I’d lived with a girlfriend! I was surprised that it took me only about fifteen minutes to warm to the idea of being a father. In my life, things have to happen by accident, or they just don’t happen.
And that’s all there was to it. Been happy about it ever since.
Now. Congratulations Malachy and Heather.
February 3rd, 2007 at 10:29 am
I really couldn’t believe it had happened – or rather, how differently it made me feel once it had.
Thanks for the link. And the congrats.
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February 5th, 2007 at 4:29 pm
There’s such a huge difference between hearing about a wanted pregnancy and an unwanted one. I remember both vividly, in 1966 and 1975.